Not only adults, but also children are very important to have motivation. It is what makes us act and go confidently towards our goal. It is not difficult to motivate a child. It is enough to know his interests and dislikes. Such external motivation is more necessary for moms and dads to make children do what they need. But the internal motivation will help the child to succeed in life, build harmonious relationships and become even better. Here are some simple ways to develop intrinsic motivation in your child:
- Set goals. These can be simple goals such as learning homework quickly so you have time to play, going to bed on time so you won't be late for school in the morning. They can also be long-term goals (for teens) to be successful in a career or relationship.
- Planning. When you have a clear plan of action, it is easy to achieve your goal. Help your children plan what they are interested in.
- Encourage. This is one of the most effective ways of motivation. For a child, this incentive can be buying a toy, watching a favorite cartoon on a tablet, or something else he or she loves.
- Inspire. The example of parents is far more important than what they say. That is why it is so important for children to set a good example.
- Explanation. When talking to children, it is very important to explain why you should do this or that in a certain situation.
- Appreciate. Remember to appreciate all the effort your child puts in to accomplish a goal.
- cheer up. Children can't absolutely always be the best at everything. And when they are haunted by failure, they give up. Your support will help them believe in their strength and achieve their goals.
- The assignment for the competition. In the process of competition we try to win. It motivates us to achieve new successes.
Also, help your child learn new skills and accept disadvantages. At the same time, do not be intrusive. Try different ways to develop motivation in the child, and choose the most effective.
